I will miss and have to bury the old Bruce : Kris cries out

3

Bruce Jenner visited Kris at her home and said he wanted to talk to her about his transitioning. He said he made a note of what he wanted to say to her so that he wouldn’t leave anything out. He urged her to sit down then started to talk to her.
“First of all, you’re amazing woman,’ he said, reading from the note. ‘We’ve had so many great moments together, 23-25 years of great moments together. They’re still inside me. They’re still part of me and I don’t want to let that go. In so many ways , I have lived my life running away from me and who I am.
We have raised amazing children together and those memories will live inside of me forever and I will continue to have more of those. I want to get through all of this and the do the best darn job of not hurting anybody, that includes you. I would hope that you would kind of be on board.

2b

Kris, who couldn’t stop crying said she was confused because Bruce shut her out a long time ago hence didn’t understand what was happening.

She said ‘You were angry and that made me angry’ but Bruce said she treated him badly the last 4-5years of their marriage. He said he wasn’t happy.

She said No, you were just very very angry to the point that we had to separate and get divorced. You never said this was going to be the end result, ever, but now it makes sense to me. I think just being honest is just something we would have all appreciated,’ she went on, ‘and I think the truth in your head is different from the truth that comes out of your mouth and different from your actions.
He started sobbing and said he didn’t tell her the truth before now because he didn’t want to hurt her.

She looked at him with tears in her eyes and said she always knew that he wanted to dress differently and that was something he liked to do when he got that urge but that she didn’t know that he wanted to be a female.

‘I don’t know when you went from, ‘this isn’t working for me anymore’ and to, ‘I’m going to go all the way,’ and I am going to start taking hormones. You didn’t even tell me as a married couple that you were taking hormones’ she said

However, he said he didn’t take the hormones until after they separated and he went to a therapist, trying to figure himself out.

Kris was upset that every time he was angry and she wanted to talk to him, he always shut down.
‘Bruce, you never explained,’ she remonstrated with her ex. ‘You said I just wouldn’t understand and you couldn’t talk about it.That was your answer every time.’

‘I turned into the Wicked Witch of the West because of how you were behaving,’ she said.
Finally, the former couple found a way forward and acknowledged that they still had love for each other.
‘I just want to get through this and do the best damn job of not hurting anybody and that includes you,’ Bruce told Kris.
He said he had had the identity crisis since he was 10 years old.
He said Kris was the toughest one to talk to and apologized for his lack of honesty with her throughout their marriage. He said he apologized for not being more open and for hurting her
I am going to miss Bruce and I am trying so hard just to process my pain and get through my days, it’s a struggle everyday. I wake up in the morning and realize oh my god this is really happening. I have to mourn this person I was married to all these years. You think you’re going to grow old with somebody and then they drastically change over the course of a few years. It’s like I have to mourn Bruce Jenner. I am confused as to what happened to Bruce because I miss Bruce and I wont be able to really have Bruce anymore, all I’ll have are my memories and pictures. I feel like you died, like Bruce is dead”.
He said he wanted to still be part of her life and her in his and would be a better person as ‘her’.
He said he’s 65 and wont be around for too long.
What if I get of cancer and only have 3 months to live? I will never be happy because I didn’t get to live like I am supposed to be as a woman” What if something happens to me? He said.

I just want you to know that I still love you Kris and I want to be in your life. He said.

Kris responded that she loved him as well, I just want you to be happy even though I feel blindsided by this drastic change.

They parted ways with a hug and still in tears.

4

“Everything is going to be good, I promise you”. He said.

Got news or gist for us? send it to tola@okgist.com

(Visited 46 times, 1 visits today)

34 Comments

  1. I¡¦ll immediately clutch your rss feed as I can’t to find your email subscription hyperlink or newsletter service. Do you have any? Please allow me understand so that I could subscribe. Thanks.

  2. I just want to tell you that I am just new to weblog and definitely liked this web blog. Very likely I’m likely to bookmark your blog . You absolutely come with exceptional well written articles. Thank you for sharing with us your blog.

  3. I simply want to tell you that I am all new to blogging and actually enjoyed this web site. Almost certainly I’m likely to bookmark your blog post . You certainly have amazing article content. Many thanks for sharing your website page.

  4. I have learned new things as a result of your website. One other thing I’d really like to say is the fact newer computer operating systems tend to allow additional memory to get used, but they furthermore demand more memory simply to function. If people’s computer cannot handle far more memory as well as the newest application requires that ram increase, it is usually the time to buy a new Computer. Thanks

  5. I would like to thnkx for the efforts you’ve put in writing this blog. I am hoping the same high-grade website post from you in the upcoming as well. In fact your creative writing skills has encouraged me to get my own blog now. Actually the blogging is spreading its wings fast. Your write up is a great example of it.

  6. I have really learned newer and more effective things by your web site. One other thing I would really like to say is that often newer personal computer operating systems are likely to allow additional memory for use, but they in addition demand more ram simply to operate. If one’s computer can not handle a lot more memory plus the newest software program requires that memory increase, it is usually the time to shop for a new Laptop or computer. Thanks

  7. I simply want to mention I am newbie to blogs and really loved you’re blog. Very likely I’m planning to bookmark your blog post . You actually have great articles. Kudos for sharing with us your web-site.

  8. I just want to mention I’m newbie to blogging and site-building and definitely savored this web-site. Probably I’m likely to bookmark your site . You amazingly have amazing article content. Regards for sharing your webpage.

  9. Excellent read, I just passed this onto a colleague who was doing some research on that. And he actually bought me lunch because I found it for him smile Thus let me rephrase that: Thanks for lunch!

  10. I simply want to mention I am newbie to blogs and seriously loved this website. Very likely I’m planning to bookmark your website . You really have perfect articles and reviews. Appreciate it for revealing your blog.

  11. I simply want to tell you that I am just beginner to weblog and seriously enjoyed this page. Almost certainly I’m planning to bookmark your website . You absolutely have good well written articles. With thanks for revealing your web site.

  12. hi!,I love your writing so so much! proportion we communicate extra approximately your article on AOL? I require an expert in this house to solve my problem. May be that is you! Looking forward to look you.

  13. Thanks for the points you have provided here. Another thing I would like to say is that laptop or computer memory demands generally go up along with other advancements in the engineering. For instance, as soon as new generations of processors are introduced to the market, there’s usually a related increase in the size calls for of both computer system memory in addition to hard drive space. This is because the application operated through these processor chips will inevitably rise in power to benefit from the new technology.

  14. One thing I would really like to say is always that before obtaining more pc memory, have a look at the machine in which it could be installed. In case the machine will be running Windows XP, for instance, the actual memory threshold is 3.25GB. The installation of in excess of this would just constitute just a waste. Be sure that one’s motherboard can handle an upgrade amount, as well. Great blog post.

  15. Hi there, I discovered your website by means of Google whilst looking for a related matter, your web site got here up, it seems to be good. I’ve bookmarked it in my google bookmarks.

  16. I just want to mention I’m new to blogging and truly loved your website. Very likely I’m want to bookmark your blog post . You really come with impressive article content. Cheers for sharing your web page.

  17. Si on prend l’characteristic de Garcinia Cambogia en conjonction avec des médicaments contre
    le diabète, la glycémie peut descendre trop.

  18. Hey very cool website!! Guy .. Excellent .. Wonderful .. I will bookmark your website and take the feeds additionally?
    I am glad to find so many useful information right here within the post,
    we’d like work out extra strategies on this regard, thanks for sharing.
    . . . . .

  19. Heya i am for the first time here. I found this board
    and I to find It really useful & it helped me out much.
    I am hoping to provide something back and aid others like you aided me.

  20. Right now it sounds like BlogEngine is the top blogging platform out there right now.
    (from what I’ve read) Is that what you’re using on your blog?

  21. Excellent article. Keep writing such kind of information on your blog.
    Im really impressed by your site.
    Hey there, You’ve performed an incredible job. I’ll certainly digg it and in my opinion suggest to my friends.

    I’m sure they’ll be benefited from this site.

  22. Very good blog you have here but I was wondering if you knew of any
    forums that cover the same topics discussed here?
    I’d really love to be a part of online community where I can get feedback from other experienced individuals that share the same
    interest. If you have any recommendations, please let me know.
    Thanks!

    • Undeniably believe that which you stated. Your
      favorite justification seemed to be on the web the easiest thing to be aware of.
      I say to you, I certainly get irked while people consider worries that they just don’t know about.
      You managed to hit the nail upon the top and also defined out the whole thing without having side-effects , people
      can take a signal. Will probably be back to get more. Thanks

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.


*